Real Relationships
Does Marriage Counselling Work
Marriage counselling and therapy often get a bad rap. I’m sure you have heard the saying ‘it put the final nail in the coffin’. This is not really surprising given that many people decide to go to therapy when the relationship really is in dire straits.It is also no wonder when many couples think that going to […]
How cynicism can ruin your relationship
Higher quality conversations that lead to greater, more consistent intimacy and emotional connection in your relationship……..involve calling yourself out on your own limited perspectives.Cynicism is a big one. We all love to be cynical especially when we think we smell a rat about something. There are a lot of scams out there and so it […]
The impact of healthy masculine energy on a relationship
The Miracle and Power of Healthy Masculine Expression (and the ‘NO’ to the wounded feminine). I have been working with a wonderful couple recently who have given me permission to share this story.In a nutshell, I invited the husband to have a conversation with his mother-in-law (who lives with them) about how she was showing up in […]
The ‘No Relationship is Perfect’ Argument.
There are two very different ways to relate to the ‘no relationship is perfect’ argument. One way creates stagnancy, low grade or non-existent intimacy the other consistent erotic aliveness in all its forms. The ‘No Relationship is Perfect’ couple who are actually stuck in dysfunction (often without full awareness) can look remarkably similar to the ‘No Relationship […]
When you feel stuck in your love life
If you keep repeating the same pattern in your love life to the extent you are feeling stuck and frustrated because you cannot seem to move past it, I invite you to read on….. Whether your pattern is…. *Attracting the same kind of partners who are not a good match. *Attracting partner’s who seem a good match but […]
What Your Relationship Wants
Your relationship does not care about you being right.It cares about you knowing HOW to create emotional connection.It wants you to go deeper than just surface level opinions and likes and dislikes.Knowing how to create a deeply loving relationship requires having emotional connection with yourself first and foremost.If you think you already have this please […]
Why your feelings create gold in your relationship!
How to turn your anxiety, depression, frustration into absolute gold in your relationship (and all other areas of your life)It really is all there for your taking.Unfortunately feelings are a topic that is HIGHLY underestimated. Let’s face it many feelings don’t feel that good and even the good feelings such as joy are surfaced over […]
Why successful people often fail at love
It is no coincidence that super successful people often have highly dysfunctional relationships.They live in a world where the mind rules. When someone over relies on their mind they are so fixed on trying to get things ‘right’ or being perfect that they are unable to create transformation in a short amount of time. They do not […]
Are you in integrity in your love life?
Integrity in Love.Are you really being the person you want to be in your relationship? Most people are so focused on what their partner is or isn’t doing they fail to see that they are also falling short of their own standards. We know we are never going to be perfect. However, if you are falling into […]
When you aren’t happy in love
When you aren’t happy or at least okay with where you are in love, life, business/work I’m in no doubt that you are ‘hooked’ (I see it every day in my clients). Hooked to the outer (societal) and inner voice that literally has you falling hook line and sinker for things that don’t help you move […]