Guiding Successful Couples to Break Free
from Painful Patterns and Build a 'New' Relationship,
Based on Solid, Healthy Foundations.
"Genuinely Michele, you have helped save our marriage.
It was our last ditch attempt.
We were talking divorce when we came to you,
we haven't mentioned it since..."
Kat, Hertfordshire
Your Relationship isn’t Struggling for the Reasons You Think
You have evidence to back up your thoughts and feelings about your partner.
But what if it’s your and your partner’s relationship to your own feelings and thoughts
that is keeping these dynamics in place, far more than you realise?
This internal relationship is responsible for the tone, the responses,
and the emotional atmosphere between you.
Your words and behaviour then carry energy that is either
capable of drawing your partner towards you or pushes them away.
The unfortunate thing is, this underlying energy is being shaped by internal patterns
that operate outside of your conscious awareness.
Which is why you can be saying the right things,
trying to stay calm or choosing your words carefully.
And still feel your partner pull away, shut down, or find yourselves pulled back into conflict despite your best intentions
Until the underlying energy driving the communication and behaviour changes,
nothing else will.
Which is why so many couples feel stuck, getting nowhere fast.
None of this has to Mean the Relationship is Broken.
More often than not, it means that underlying fears have been driving the connection
without being addressed, or even recognised.
With the right kind of support, this moment can become a turning point,
not by trying harder or getting it 'right',
but by changing what’s happening underneath the surface.
Even if you can’t yet see how or you doubt your partner is capable of changing.
My Approach
This work is vastly different from traditional therapeutic approaches.
It creates real shifts early on even for couples who feel stuck or close to giving up, and builds from there.
My work focuses on changing the internal conditions
that are creating the relationship triggers in the first place.
This is not about just teaching better communication or relationship strategies.
Lasting change doesn’t happen at the surface level.
It happens at the level of the internal patterns that govern
how you react, protect yourself, and try to connect with your partner.
My unique and nuanced proprietary method, The Profound Permission Method®
works with the parts of you that have learned to respond from self-management,
perfectionism or fear, often without your awareness.
These patterns aren’t wrong or intentional.
They developed for a reason.
But when they continue to run the relationship, connection becomes unstable.
It has the effect of eroding intimacy over time.
However, when these internal patterns begin to shift:
• You find you can communicate with more clarity and responsibility
• Conflict becomes productive rather than destructive
• Emotional safety rebuilds
• Polarity and attraction are restored
• Intimacy re-emerges
• Connection becomes real, transparent and sustainable
As the underlying relational energy shifts, the majority of my clients find they start responding with more steadiness and can communicate in ways that open the door for a deeper more loving connection that continues to build over time.
Who I Work With
Many have tried therapy, coaching or self-help with limited results.
Others arrive after a sudden shift that leaves them feeling lost or disconnected.
Neither partner is broken. This is the just the beginning of transformation.
Your Relationship Is Calling You Forth And
Can Become Stronger
Than It Has Ever Been
If there is still love between you and you share similar values, powerful change is possible.
With precision, accountability and the right support, your connection can be rebuilt on a new foundation.
If you are both willing to take responsibility for how you contribute to the relational dynamic rather than focusing on who is right or wrong, this work can change everything.
Click here to read more about my relationship story
f thReady to Begin
Book a complimentary strategy call to explore how this work can support you.
Please refer to my Couples or Marriage pages if you would like more information about the kind of relationship situations I work with.
Locations
Harley Street, London
Haslemere and Guildford
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"I definitely recommend this program to anyone"
My husband and I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.
After 10 years, we were close to divorce, not because we wanted to
but because it seemed like there was no other way.
When my husband agreed to do couples coaching, I found Michele and she seemed to
have a different and very direct approach. We didn't regret it and thank god we did it!
The structure she provided is very powerful and helped us interact in a new, healthier way.
Audrey, Switzerland
"Before you hit the button on divorce, try Michele"
We approached Michele at a time in our lives where, in theory, we should never have been happier,
but in fact we’d never been more dissatisfied with our relationship or cross at each other.
Despite our best efforts, we found ourselves stuck in repetitive, unresolved conversations
and we were struggling to communicate honestly without triggering each other.
We needed a way to shift these patterns. Michele’s unique framework and method provided us
with invaluable tools to navigate our emotions and difficult conversations.
Her approach encouraged us to become more curious and self-aware,
which has made a significant difference in our interactions.
We have experienced clear progress in our relationship:
- Our conversations have become less tense and reactive.
- We have developed more patience and are spending more quality time together.
- There is less need to be right and more willingness to cede the floor during discussions.
- We feel like more like a team again, with increased trust in each other.
- We have achieved a deeper level of honesty, both within ourselves and with each other......
Cian and Samantha, Surrey
If you are ready to shift your relationship at the root, I invite you to…
Not ready for Couples or 1 to 1 work?
The Turning Point
is a short, paid audio and self-reflection experience designed to help you experience
how change begins internally, before anything changes externally.
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*Disclaimer:
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on this website are proof of the success of Michele's work. Results may vary from person to person depending on your commitment and specific situation.