Michele Willmott
Helping High Achieving Couples Transform their Relationship
When your relationship is
in crisis, and you don't know
if there is a way back
You have tried talking things though
and making more effort.
Yet you end up in the same place.
Your behaviour and communication are being driven by fear-based patterns that neither of you can see.
Change those patterns, and your relationship has the opportunity to change too.
Book a call to understand what is really driving your relationship, and whether real transformation is possible.
Is this you?
The relationship feels unstable; trust has been affected, or there has been an affair.
Separation or divorce have been discussed.
Conversations either escalate quickly or get left unresolved.
There is distance, tension, or things left unsaid between you.
You don’t want to lose the relationship, but you don’t know how to change it.
This does not automatically mean
your relationship is beyond repair
Many couples find themselves here.
This is often not down to a lack of love or compatibility.
And it is rarely because either partner lacks the capacity to change.
More often, they are caught in patterns they don't fully understand.
So they try harder.
They communicate more carefully.
Some go to therapy, read books, listen to podcasts, and have countless conversations
about what needs to change.
Yet the same arguments keep happening.
The same reactions keep getting triggered.
Over time, it begins to feel as though something is fundamentally wrong or missing.
But when the underlying patterns are recognised and approached with nuance and precision,
the relationship can begin to shift in a very real way.
Even if it doesn't feel possible right now.
"Genuinely Michele, you have helped save our marriage.
It was our last ditch attempt.
We were talking divorce when we came to you,
we haven't mentioned it since..."
Kat, Hertfordshire
My Approach
This work is different from most traditional approaches
It doesn’t stay at the level of behaviour or communication and it doesn't diagnose childhood patterns.
Instead we work with the often unrecognised fear that is driving those reactions in the first place.
This is why couples start to see real shifts early on,
even if they have been stuck for years or are close to giving up.
The Profound Permission Method® helps you change the patterns driving your relationship at their root.
The method dismantles triggers in the body, where the patterns are being kept alive.
As the triggers that once dominated the relationship lose their grip,
it becomes much easier to repair patterns that create disconnection in a way that actually brings you back together.
"Michele, you have helped pull us back from a very dark place.
This work has fundamentally changed who I am as a person
and how I show up in the relationship.
I am no longer upset by the smaller things that would irritate me and
create negative narratives. This has given us more honesty and transparency.
It has made what seemed impossible, possible."
Claire and Michael, Surrey
Who I Work With
to problem solving and excelling in their chosen field.
the same approaches that work in other areas of their life.
Many have tried therapy, coaching or self-help with limited results.
Others arrive after a sudden shift or crisis that leaves them feeling lost or disconnected.
This isn't a comfortable place to be, but it is often the point at which the patterns keeping you disconnected become impossible to ignore.
Once those patterns begin to shift, the relationship can be rebuilt on much stronger foundations.
What relationship situations have a great chance of success?
When I speak to prospective clients, these are the qualities I look for:
- A broadly similar outlook and approach to life.
- The absence of significant values clashes or active addiction.
- A willingness from both partners to:
i) Take responsibility for their part in the relationship dynamic.
ii)Commit to doing the uncomfortable work required to change the
fear-based patterns that are no longer serving the relationship.
When these foundations are in place, even relationships that feel deeply stuck
can change in ways many couples never thought were possible.
Ways To Work With Me
Other Ways to Work With Me
Alongside private coaching, I also offer a range of courses designed to
help you understand and change the patterns driving your relationship.
If you are ready to shift your relationship at the root,
and would like to have private 1 to 1 support
with Michele, please click below.
"Idefinitely recommend this programme to anyone"
My husband and I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.
After 10 years, we were close to divorce, not because we wanted to
but because it seemed like there was no other way.
When my husband agreed to do couples coaching, I found Michele and she seemed to
have a different and very direct approach. We didn't regret it and thank god we did it!
The structure she provided is very powerful and helped us interact in a new, healthier way.
Audrey, Switzerland
"Before you hit the button on divorce, try Michele"
We approached Michele at a time in our lives where, in theory, we should never have been happier,
but in fact we’d never been more dissatisfied with our relationship or cross at each other.
We needed a way to shift these patterns. Michele’s unique framework and method provided us
with invaluable tools to navigate our emotions and difficult conversations.
We have experienced clear progress in our relationship:
- Our conversations have become less tense and reactive.
- We have developed more patience and are spending more quality time together.
- We feel like more like a team again, with increased trust in each other.
- We have achieved a deeper level of honesty, both within ourselves and with each other...
Cian and Samantha, Surrey
Recent Posts:
- The Mirror Effect: How Your Money Patterns Reflect Your Relationship Dynamics
- Why managing your feelings is destroying your relationship.
- When your marriage isn't working anymore.
- Why energy doesn't lie when it comes to love.
- Respecting the differences between men and women.
- Your triggers aren't the problem - your identification with them is
*Disclaimer:
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on this website are proof of the success of Michele's work. Results may vary from person to person depending on your commitment and specific situation.