How This Work Was Forged

My career began in teaching in the United Kingdom.

During those years I remained in a relationship that did not align with me.
I ignored this truth until I chose to end the engagement.  
The familiar version of me could not continue.

I later met and married my husband.

We moved to France and built a ski chalet business in the Alps. 
After five years we sold everything.

This marked the beginning of my coaching work.

In 2014 I unfortunately sustained a spinal cord injury during a fall.
The emotional fallout was intense. Fear. Grief. Instability.
The loss of who I had been.

I reached a point where I had to choose whether my feelings would run my life or whether I would relate to myself in a completely different way.

This was not just a mindset shift.
This required a whole new way of working with my triggers.

During menopause another major shift occurred. 
With anxiety and reactivity heightened, I started seriously questioning my relationship.

I desired my husband’s leadership in a way I had never voiced before. 
But I also needed to take responsibility for my overfunctioning and micromanagement,
which for the large part were not fully recognised.

I realised we were both playing our part in keeping our dynamic alive.

The shifts that followed became the foundation of my unique proprietary method, The Profound Permission Method®, that I now use with clients.

This is a method that dissolves subtle and often unrecognised self sabotage patterns at their root.

A method that has helped my clients move beyond years of reactivity, defensiveness, shutdown, compulsive behaviour and sabotage, often in a very short space of time.

I did not design this method in theory.
It emerged and was born through lived experience, emotional adversity and rebuilding from truth.

What My Work Creates

This work is designed to dismantle your relationship triggers so that they no longer get to run the relationship.

This then paves the way for healthier communication and the kind of repair conversations that bring you closer together. 

Here, you learn to:

i) Trust in your innate capacity to create change within your relationship dynamic.

ii) Create a sense of internal safety, which is crucial for the relaitonship to survive over the long-run

iii) Speak in such a way that creates connection and that demonstrates radical responsibility for your role in the dynamic. This kind of communication creates an environment where your partner is more able to 'meet' you.

How I Work

Private Containers for Individuals and Couples, includes varying levels of support between sessions.

Individuals
Private programmes for men and women, who are in a relationship or currently single.

Couples
Shorter term programmes - designed to help achieve clarity when one individual is unsure whether they want to be in the relationship.
Longer private programmes - Designed to start creating and embedding a healthier relational foundation.

These containers are for individuals and couples who are ready to take full responsibility for their part of the dynamic.
The work is deep, precise and designed for lasting transformation.

If you are ready for transformation at this level, you are welcome to reach out and book a call.