When your marriage isn’t working anymore
When what used to work in your marriage is no longer working! Any long-term relationship can hit a crisis point (or two) throughout its journey.The initial throes of passion and excitement fall by the wayside once familiarity has set in. In an effort to try and keep the spark alive, many couples need the drama of […]
Do men need to be vulnerable?
Do men need to be vulnerable in their relationships?Unfortunately there are many unhealthy expectations when it comes to the topic of men and vulnerability. There is also much unhelpful advice, albeit unintentional, regarding what vulnerability should look like. Should a man express his innermost feelings to his partner?Should he express in the same way as a […]
How to heal a broken relationship
Is too late to mend or heal your relationship?If this is crossing your mind at the moment, I can give you two examples of when this might be the case.There is some form of relationship abuse going on. If you are experiencing any physical, emotional, verbal or sexual abuse, it would be the number one […]
Unlocking Relationship Mastery – The Secrets to Creating Long Lasting Connection and Intimacy
Unlocking Relationship Mastery – The Secrets to Creating Long Lasting Connection and IntimacyDo you know what the majority of relationships are starved of? Your mind is probably not going to like my answer, (or maybe it will, apologies if so 😉 ) They are starved of….. MAGIC. Hear me out, this is important. Knowing how to create moments of magic […]
Masculine Women in Relationships
What does a Masculine Women in a Relationship look like?To start with when I say masculine, this refers to a woman’s energy. Many women are over masculine in their relationships. They have been conditioned to show up like this without realising. I have worked with many relationships where this dynamic is in place. I used […]
Is it normal to argue?
Is it normal to argue in your romantic relationship? It is a commonly held belief that it is normal for couples to argue. However, arguments are only ‘normal’ as in they are common. Their existence still indicates a certain level of dysfunction that could be worked through to create more consistent connection and intimacy. Unfortunately, many couples are in […]
Can I save my marriage after separation?
Can you save your marriage or relationship even though you have separated? Yes, absolutely, is my answer (I say this with conviction because I have seen some of my clients do it…see below). If there is love still between you and you both want to make a go of your relationship again, there is no reason why […]
Do you need boundaries in your relationship?
To be honest I can no longer see or hear the boundaries in my marriage.They are just there.They are unspoken and are an integral part of the healthy relating that goes on between myself and my husband.My husband and I are adaptable and flexible. We trust ourselves and each other to adjust to the flow […]
Is your wife trying to control you?
Men, do you feel that your partner is trying to control you? Does she point out everything you are doing wrong? Does she always think she knows better? Do you think to yourself ‘I’d better keep quiet just in case I say the wrong thing’ or ‘I just want a peaceful life’?Perhaps you find yourself being […]
The main reason affairs happen.
Why do affairs happen?The main reason why so many extra-marital affairs happen is due to a lack of emotional connection.When a couple are struggling to connect on a regular basis, all sorts of issues start showing up in a relationship:Physical touch and intimacy generally starts to decline Men and women feel loneliness and despairResentment builds up under […]
