The Hidden Force Behind Every
Relationship Challenge
Every relationship challenge stems from the same root: distorted energy.
The energy behind your words, your responses, your behaviour, will either be creating connection or destroying it.
The problem is distorted energy is not always easy to hear.
It often sounds very reasonable and rational.
All the while it is creating 'separation' between you and your partner.
It doesn't matter what relationship tools or strategies you try.
If the energy driving the behaviour is one of self sabotage
then NOTHING will change.
This is why even successful, intelligent couples find themselves stuck in cycles of conflict and avoidance,
often ending up feeling like roommates instead of lovers.
But if you are here...
- You are probably done with surface-level solutions and going round in circles not getting anywhere.
- You want change and you are not ready to give up.
- You recognise that what you have been doing clearly isn't working.
- You want change because you refuse to settle for a mediocre relationship.
I work with couples just like you.
My clients are successful couples who come to me either at their wits' end or having tried everything: years of traditional therapy, talking through their problems, communication courses, relationship books.
When conventional approaches haven't made a lasting difference,
I am able to help them because I address what others miss:
the energetic patterns that drive everything.
My approach goes deeper than communication techniques and behavioural band-aids because it recognises the TRUTH...
Your relationship has untapped power
waiting to be unleashed
Two things I would like you to know...
1. Transformation can be just around the corner,
Because your struggles are actually a gateway to a deeper connection
Every challenge in your relationship contains the exact information you need to unlock deeper intimacy and emotional connection.
Most couples never discover this.
They are too busy managing surface symptoms instead of taking a closer look at the root cause.
2. Healthy polarity is your relationship's secret weapon
Men and women have distinctly different energetic needs when it comes to love.
When these needs are honoured and amplified, magic can happen.
When they are ignored or suppressed, even the strongest couples hit walls.
Here's what can happen when polarity gets confused:
- Men shut down, become defensive and withdraw when they don't feel respected.
- Women become depleted and resentful when they don't feel heard, understood and appreciated.
So, if you are thinking any of the following, all is not lost...
If you know you still love your partner and
you want to be sure you have tried everything...
I offer you the opportunity to fundamentally shift how your relationship functions.
Here you will learn how to replace outdated patterns that drain your connection with ways of relating that create more consistent intimacy,
harmony, and mutual support.
This is about building a relationship that thrives on
connection and healthy repair, not drama toxicity.
Couples Coaching and Mentoring Options
My programmes and work are designed to help you fundamentally transform the foundations of your relationship or in some cases help create clarity regarding whether you want to stay in the relationship.
I do not offer one-off, ad-hoc sessions but tailor made programmes depending on your situation.
Most couples underestimate how long they have been unknowingly reinforcing the dynamics that are eroding their relationship.
For couples with demanding lives, sustained change requires time, consistency, and space, not rushed interventions.
In my experience, depth and stability are built through continuity, not intensity.
Clients often describe relief in knowing there is a longer-term structure to lean into, without urgency, panic, or dependency.
My relationship coaching programmes vary in length, depending on the situation.
Some couples work with me for a shorter, focused period (3 or 4 months), while others are recommended a longer-term container (6-9 months).
Additional (between session) support is available, depending on the programme.
My programmes are aimed at couples in the following situations:
1. Couples in Crisis
Where the relationship feels at immediate risk, through repeated conflict, emotional withdrawal, loss of trust, or the sense that things could break if nothing changes and both partners are committed to staying and working on the relationship.
This work (usually 6 months) focuses on creating a new foundation of emotional safety in the relationship, reducing reactive and avoidant cycles, and addressing the patterns that are driving the crisis, so that real change can take place rather than the situation continuing to deteriorate.
2. Couples requiring early intervention
Where the relationship is experiencing patterns of disconnection, resentment, or misunderstanding, and both partners sense that without intervention the relationship is likely to deteriorate or end.
This work (typically 4 months) supports earlier intervention, helping the couple address developing patterns before they become more entrenched or escalate into crisis.
3. Couples facing high personal or structural stakes
Where relationship difficulties are now carrying wider consequences, emotionally, practically, and financially; such as impacting family life, business, professional roles, or long-term security and inheritance.
Although the emotional work is the same, these situations require longer-term containment (usually 9 months), consistency, and discretion in order to protect what is at stake and prevent further fallout.
4. Couples requiring clarity (when one partner is unsure)
I also work with high-functioning couples where one or both partners are uncertain about whether to stay together or whether it is possible to trun the relationship around.
This work is not about persuading the couple to remain together, but about slowing things down, stabilising the dynamic, and helping them reach a conscious and informed decision about the future of the relationship.
Many couples attempt to decide their future while still inside the emotional charge of the pattern. This tends to produce urgency, avoidance, or regret.
Over a three month period, we work to stabilise the dynamic, surface what has been unspoken or avoided, and identify where responsibility is being taken and withheld on both sides.
This creates the conditions for a decision that is conscious, grounded, and owned, whether that is recommitting to the relationship and investing in further work or separating with integrity.
More Information
My couples work includes a combination of individual and joint sessions, allowing each of you to understand your own position clearly, while also examining the relational dynamic between you.
For some programmes, I provide defined access in between sessions for relevant questions or reflections as the work unfolds.
Similarly, I also provide written or audio insight and orientation to support integration and prevent old patterns re-asserting themselves under pressure.
Sessions begin on a weekly basis and are 75 minutes in duration.
I work Wednesday through Sundays.
Why Hire Me?
I spent years trying to take my relationship onto the next level.
I had a good relationship in many ways, but we still had our default patterns of behaviour that left me feeling lonely and resentful.
I knew deep down there was room for greater connection and intimacy....Click here to read more about my story.
How I Work
I incorporate a combined and powerful mind and somatic (body) approach in my couples coaching. This ensures we address the deeper rooted fears of rejection.
It is essential that these fears are not left to run the show!
I help you replace the underlying framework of your relationship with a new healthier one.
I have devised a proven framework called The Love Alchemy Framework™.
This includes my Profound Permission Method® which is highly effective at helping you move beyond recurring triggers in your relationship.
When you learn how to move beyond reactive triggers, you have much more space to create the kind of love and connection you both desire.
Read more here...
Schedule a Call
I offer a 30 Minute strategy call to explore your next best steps.
My husband and I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.
After 10 years, we were close to divorce, not because we wanted to but because it seemed like there was no other way.
When my husband agreed to do couples coaching, I found Michele and she seemed to have a different and very direct approach. We didn't regret it and thank god we did it!
The structure she provided is very powerful and helped us interact in a new, healthier way.
Michele is an incredible coach and being a coach myself I learned so much by interacting with her! She is direct but also caring.
What I have learned is not only about how to interact with my husband in a different way but also how to be a more empowered human being. I have been transforming and I can say with confidence that
I am not the same person today that I was 3 months ago.
I definitely recommend this program to anyone! It is definitely worth every cent. She is there for you EVERY step of the way, doing the extra mile when needed.
Michele changed my life and I will never be thankful enough that our paths crossed one day!
Audrey & Viktor, Switzerland
*Disclaimer:Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on this website are proof of the success of Michele's work. Results may vary from person to person depending on your commitment and specific situation.