About Michele
Who I Work With
I support executives, professionals, and entrepreneurs across the globe in various industries, including media, finance, law, real estate, investment, marketing, health, and education.
All high performing individuals in their own way, but feeling stuck:
• questioning their relationship
• repeating painful dynamics
• emotionally exhausted
• tired of working on symptoms
• ready for deeper truth
Some come in crisis.
Others arrive with a quiet knowing that something needs to shift before more damage is done.
They share one thing.
They are ready to look at themselves.
They are ready to dissolve the identity that maintains their patterns.
They are ready for real change.
My Story
How This Work Was Forged
My career began in teaching in the United Kingdom.
During those years I remained in a relationship that did not align with me.
I ignored this truth until I chose to end the engagement.
This was my first experience of identity collapse.
The familiar version of me could not continue.
I later met and married my husband.
We moved to France and built a successful ski chalet business in the Alps.
After five years we sold everything.
This marked the beginning of my coaching work.
In 2014 I sustained a spinal cord injury during a fall.
The emotional fallout was intense. Fear. Grief. Instability.
The loss of who I had been.
I reached a point where I had to choose whether my feelings would run my life or whether I would inhabit myself in a completely different way.
This was not just a mindset shift.
This required a whole new way of working with my triggers at an identity level.
During menopause another major shift occurred.
I could no longer operate from the identity that carried the weight of everything.
I needed my husband’s leadership in a way I had never voiced before.
I also needed to take responsibility for my overfunctioning and micromanagement.
I realised we were both playing our part in keeping the 'unattractive' dynamic alive.
The shifts that followed became the foundation of the proprietary method I now use with clients.
A method that dissolves identity based patterns at their root.
A method that has helped clients clear years of reactivity, defensiveness, shutdown, compulsive behaviour and sabotage, often in a very short space of time.
I did not design this method in theory.
It emerged through lived experience, emotional adversity and rebuilding from truth.
What My Work Creates
This work dismantles and dissolves the identity (within each individual) that maintains:
• Sabotage
• Emotional chaos
• Disconnection
• Shutdown
• Cycles of defensiveness
• Repeated triggers
• Conditional safety
• Fear based responses
• Survival patterns
• Loss of intimacy
When this out of date identity dissolves, behaviour can change without force and control.
Here, your body learns how to create love.
It serves as your guide to navigate the complexities of a relationship.
You learn to trust in your innate power to do this.
Your relationship cannot help but follow.
How I Work
Private Containers for Individuals and Couples, includes varying levels of support between sessions.
Individuals
4 month private programmes
Transformation at the identity level for men and women, who are in a relationship or currently single.
Couples
3 month programme - designed to help achieve clarity when one individual is unsure whether they want to be in the relationship.
6 or 9 month private programmes - Designed to start creating a new relational foundation through identity recalibration.
These containers are for individuals and couples who are ready to take full responsibility for their part of the dynamic.
The work is deep, precise and designed for lasting transformation.
If you are ready for transformation at this level, you are welcome to reach out and book a call.
If you are not ready to commit to ongoing work,
The Turning Point offers a contained way to experience
the first layers of the transformational work first.
My Qualifications
Coaching
I bring to our relationship 13 years experience as a Certified Co-Active Professional Coach (CPCC) having trained with the renowned ICF recognised Coach Training Institute.
Relationships
I am an Imago Relationships Facilitator trained through Imago Relationships International.
Psychotherapy
I am a qualified Contemporary Psychotherapist. I obtained my Psychotherapy Diploma with Beeleaf Contemporary Psychotherapy, London.
I am also a certified Firework Career Coach.
What I would also like you to know.....
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I have full public liability and professional indemnity insurance with Oxygen Insurance.
I have heavily invested for years in mentors and coaches who helped me understand how parts of ourselves unintentionally create sabotage in our relationship.
These parts are only doing what they think in order to avoid being rejected.
Sadly, their thinking and behaviour serves to create more disconnection.
Ultimately we end up keeping the person we love at arms length.
This is the work I am most excited to share with you due to its potential for long lasting transformation.
When I started out on my relationship coaching and therapy career I did not realise how much I was still being led by my own sabotaging patterns. I had to unlearn many patterns of behaviour and thinking that were not serving me.
This is when everything started shifting onto a completely new level.
Today I also coach other therapists and coaches who still struggle in their relationships.
This for me, says that there is something missing from many therapeutic modalities in regards to honouring the different needs of men and women. It is also the main reason why I found myself at a standstill despite all of my trainings.
This is why I am passionate about this work and my aim is two-fold:
1. To help you create a relationship that thrives over the long-term.
2. To help you trust your innate capacity to keep creating consistent connection.
Please click on the buttons below to find out more about my
relationship coaching and marriage therapy programmes.
Schedule a 30 Minute Strategy Call
On this call we will explore your next best steps
and see how this work can help you
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Call Michele: +44 (0) 7516545107
*Disclaimer:
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on this website are proof of the success of Michele's work. Results may vary from person to person depending on your commitment and specific situation.