Michele Willmott
Relationship Coach & Mentor
For the High-Achieving Man
Who Refuses to
Lose Himself in Love
For the man who commands excellence in his career, yet knows he is leaking power where it matters most.
You lead in every other area of your life but at home, or in your private thoughts, a different story is unfolding.
For some men, this looks like a relationship quietly eroding under defensiveness, shutdown, or conflict.
For others, it’s the ache of being single despite success, effort, and doing everything “right.”
The common thread?
You have built an extraordinary life…but your relational patterns haven’t caught up.
And the strategies you have tried, logic, communication tools, traditional counselling, dating experts, aren’t touching the root.
Because what’s running the show is not your intention.
It’s your unconscious patterns, your energy, your state of being.
Why Your Efforts Haven’t Shifted Anything
Most men are operating from learned survival patterns:
- - shutting down
- - placating
- - defending
- - over-thinking
- - reacting
- - withdrawing
- - over-delivering to avoid conflict
These patterns quietly sabotage connection, in a relationship or in dating.
This isn’t because you’re weak.
It’s because you have been conditioned to suppress your full power.
And when your energy is misaligned, nothing you say or do will land the way you intend.
Who I Work With
I work with men who are high achievers, leaders, and visionaries.
Men who are respected publicly, but privately know they are out of alignment.
Through my unique method and framework, you will:
- Rebuild integrity where it has been fractured.
- Lead your relationship and life with a clearer, more magnetic presence.
- Create intimacy that isn’t forced, but naturally drawn toward you.
- Step into power that feels clean, trustworthy, and grounded.
This doesn't mean you need to become a domineering man.
Rather a man whose energy speaks louder than any strategy.
About My Work
I don’t teach techniques.
I help you dismantle the patterns that erode intimacy, respect, and polarity.
This work helps you lead yourself, so that REAL connection becomes possible again....
Because at the core of every relational breakdown is the same thing: a loss of emotional safety.
When your energy becomes steady, grounded, and trustworthy, her nervous system responds.
Communication opens, defensiveness drops, and intimacy has space to return, not because you are trying harder, but because the energy behind your words and behaviour carries the most weight.
My clients experience:
- renewed intimacy with their partner
- attraction that reignites naturally
- the ability to repair looping conflict
- more connection with their children
- an embodied presence that shifts their entire home
- freedom from habits they have carried for years
- clean, grounded, trustworthy power
For the successful single man, this work clears the internal field that keeps recreating the same dating outcomes.
Women feel you differently because your energy changes.
Your Private Invitation
I work with a small number of men each year in a 4-6 month private mentorship designed for long-lasting transformation
Apply for Your Private Consultation
What's Possible...
*Transform how you show up; confident, free, and no longer trapped in defensiveness or avoidance.
*Stand strong in your boundaries to ensure that you can get the understanding, respect and appreciation you want.
*Communicate in a way that helps your partner feel heard and understood. Bring her towards you rather than keeping her feeling 'unsafe' when with you.
*Step into your full power and become a highly magnetic and attractive partner .
1 to 1 Private Consultation
If you are ready to restore integrity and rebuild intimacy, please apply below
What My Male Clients Are Saying
"There's been some really big wins..."
"There's been some really big wins. The OCD I had for 7 years has gone. I just don't need to do it anymore.
I feel happier and more connected to my children and wife. We have become intimate in a more natural way.
Work had become a distraction, but this has gone. I'm enjoying going back home. I don't feel that I'm fundamentally doing things much differently, it's the way I'm doing things.
Being the male figure, being more supportive and protecting is become more natural; it's working. I'm more energised and proactive.
Thank you Michele!
Will
London, UK.
"I have stopped drinking..."
"I've stopped drinking. I am so much more aware. I was aloof in the fact that I didn't think I needed support. Your support has been amazing Michele. You don't realise the impact you have had. The tools you have given me; the life change. You don't get to see that and I want you to know. It is going to impact my everyday life."
Steve
Chester, UK.
"Michele is far more than a therapist, she is an inspiring teacher"
"I have learnt so much from Michele. She is far more than a therapist, she is an inspiring teacher.
She has guided my wife and I over the months through tricky conversations and has ultimately restored my faith in our relationship. This was the main goal, but along the way I have learnt so much about myself.
It is so easy to think the issue is with the other person when actually there is so much responsibility that you can take for the things you didn't realise were in your control all the time. For instance, Michele helped me realise the impact that alcohol was having on my relationships. I have been inspired by Michele to learn more about the shadows that may be leading my unhelpful feelings or behaviours and how to begin to shift this; and actually realise that this is just the beginning of a longer journey of self-development.
rob
Surrey, UK.
"I can now engage with my partner on very sensitive subjects..."
"Working with Michele has really opened my eyes to the dynamics of my relationship with my partner. In particular, the things that I do and say that contribute to disharmony in our relationship. I also have a greater appreciation for my partner’s perspective and can see my triggers and not react as I have in the past.
I would say on the whole I am reacting less and I have more confidence in what I am seeing in our relationship, by being able to see what is and what isn't ok on both sides.
I am feeling better in myself and even my children have noticed and commented on positive differences in my mood and interactions. What has helped here is the process Michele teaches that allows me to work through and shift my feelings and emotions in a relatively short timeframe.
I also feel more able to understand deal with feelings and emotions in my relationship and critically not just sweep everything under the carpet. I can now engage with my partner on very sensitive subjects as a result of having a better understanding how to hear my partner better and not jump in and try to fix everything
Michele also provided great support between sessions, coupled with frameworks and methodologies that helped me to work through my relationship challenges.
I found Michele's engagement approach easy to work with, while also challenging my deep-set views in a very constructive and understandable way.
I would recommend Michele to other couples struggling to make sense of the dynamics in their relationship.
Jeremy
Surrey, UK.
" The coaching has changed our lives, we can see things differently..."
It's been an amazing 6 month journey, it has opened a new door for me....It was really important to start with learning about your behaviour and psychological traits and being open about our strengths, vulnerabilities and weaknesses rather than getting stuck in opinions.
It really helped that the coaching was firm but fair, and ensured that we did not stray too far off objectives and get bogged under in petty squabbles. The coaching has changed our lives, we can see things differently.
We have found our new selves and it has dramatically changed our perspectives on ourselves and each other. I honestly didn't think I would get out of this anger but I feel so much more confident and in control now.
Richard
London, UK.
"Learning and incorporating new ways of showing up in my relationship that have reduced tension and served to create greater connection"
"I decided to work with Michele with the view to improving my leadership and communication skills both at work and in my relationship. Throughout our sessions it became clear how much I can impact others either negatively or positively with the way I communicate, not just verbally but also on an energetic level.
Learning and incorporating new ways of showing up in my relationship that have reduced tension and served to create greater connection between my wife and I have also been invaluable...It has been a great exercise in looking at myself and becoming more of a pro-active force rather than someone who ‘life’ happens to.
All of this together with becoming more aware of the ways in which I can take full responsibility for the outcomes I want to create and realising that I am the one with the power to change things has been an empowering experience. I am grateful for Michele's support and guidance."
michael
France
"Michele is the coach that can help you transform and reach the next level"
"I highly recommend working with Michele if you get the chance. Her work addresses areas of sabotage you are not consciously aware of and she incorporates a highly effective archetypal framework, which will help you in all areas of your life.
Michele is the coach that can help you transform and reach the next level."
viktor
Lausanne, Switzerland
"I feel really understood it is incredibly rare"
"I feel really understood it is incredibly rare. To have someone guide me through this process in this way. I thank my lucky stars I found Michele. I never thought this would be the effect. I feel so, so grateful and feel so much better. I have gone from sheer hopelessness and not being able to see the way forward to knowing that everything is starting to heal me. I can see the way now and I am looking forward to keep ironing things out in my life energetically and creating an upward spiral effect".
Peter
Spain
"I now have more patience with my children and am able to communicate with my wife with more compassion"
"Michele has helped me take my marriage and family life onto a whole new level as well as helping me with my anxiety issues. I now have more patience with my children and am able to communicate with my wife with more compassion and understanding. At the same time I feel more powerful in terms of not settling and staying stagnant in our relationship. I am much better at taking decisive action and am not afraid to broach subjects that were previously avoided. The archetypal work Michele used in our sessions was highly beneficial in helping me access greater confidence and a sense of what it felt like to stand fully in my own power.
This is something I was never aware of beforehand but has helped me recognise how much more influence I actually have in changing the areas of my life in I want to improve. This work has had a strong impact on me, I highly recommend it to any man who is looking to improve his relationship."
Greg
Geneva, Switzerland

*Disclaimer:
Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on this website are proof of the success of Michele's work. Results may vary from person to person depending on your commitment and willingness to do the work involved.