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How To Communicate As A Couple  
In A Way That Creates Beautiful
Connection & A Passionate Intimacy....


...So That You Don't Have To Leave or Keep Waiting For Him To Change!

If you are with a decent, good man but are...

→  Bickering or having the same old arguments
→ Experiencing a lack of physical intimacy 

→  Doubting whether he is ever going to step up

→  Struggling to communicate and feeling like you are drifting apart

→  Resentful because he is defensive, avoidant or thinks everything is ok

→  Feeling frustrated as he is not present or engaged with you.

→ Feeling guilty because you know you nag and criticise him 


And if you are...

CRAVING for him to step up and be more dynamic, 
pro-active, passionate and emotionally connected


You are in the right place!

You may be thinking...

'Oh another communication technique. I've tried them before. They don't work.

I've tried telling him how I feel but he doesn't listen to me. What's the point!'

The trouble is, men are missing information on how to respond to your communication
 in a way that motivates them to step up, so that you can feel more trusting.

This is why I have written The Feminine Communication Guide,
to help both you and your partner understand how couples need to
communicate to help their relationship thrive over the long-term.
 
 This simple structure of communicating transformed my marriage
and is changing the lives of my clients!

I understand at this point you maybe tired of trying
many popular relationship tips and techniques.  
It is not surprising you might even feel cynical.

The truth about these techniques is that they only go so far!


Just because it is popular, doesn't mean that it is highly effective.


This is why so many relationships are still failing.

This is why divorce rates are so high.

Believe me, I tried many of these techniques in my marriage.

I even trained in some.


They failed to give the help that my husband and I really needed.


Until I discovered

This simple structure of communication

which means:

No more Waiting for your partner,

Avoiding difficult conversations, Or walking on egg shells.  

Just Simple Communication with no more "we need to talk"

Which is exactly why i created this guide

The Feminine Communication Guide For Conscious Women!

This guide will help you to realise why you have been unable to create the relationship that you really wanted all this time.  

It will explain to you why you have not been able to move past the recurring patterns of conflict or avoidance that you find yourself stuck in.

It will give you a chance to change your love life for the long-term.

These Are The Topics You'll Find
Inside The Guide

Discover the exact communication that BOTH Men & women need to adopt to get their needs met

What to say, when to use it & how.

Healthy examples of what it sounds like versus unhealthy examples. 

The Power Of Our Unconscious When it comes To Love

How your unconscious can keep love at arm's length. What to look out for in terms of behaviours & thinking. How to ensure that it doesn't 'lead' your relationship. 

The Benefits Of This Style Of Communication 

How this communication benefits YOU AND YOUR PARTNER in the short & long-term.

The Difference Between

Masculine & Feminine Energy

How your unconscious can keep love at arm's length. What to look out for in terms of behaviours & thinking. How to ensure that it doesn't 'lead' your relationship. 

Why Conflict & Tension can be a gift in your relationship.

How you can uncover the gift in the tension and conflict and use it to help your relationship not only grow but thrive over the long-term. 


More Communication Tips

Communication can be very nuanced according to the situation. It is not about getting it 'right' all the time. In this guide you will learn crucial tips to help you navigate the communication with your partner more easily.

My Story


3 years ago and after 16 years of marriage.......  


.....despite my relationship being generally a happy one, I couldn’t understand why I was experiencing moments of loneliness and disconnection.  I also felt we were missing passion and spontaneity.

I started to think that maybe it was time to leave.

As a coach I was feeling a lot of pressure to 'upgrade' my relationship.  

Perhaps I was meant to be with someone else?

I loved him but I wanted more.

I wanted a man who was more passionate about us.  A man who was more alive, dynamic and expressive.

I wasn't sure whether he could match up to my vision.

Whether he could truly meet me in my desires and needs.

The thought of leaving petrified me.

I didn't want to jump ship then realise I had made the biggest mistake of my life or repeat the same patterns in my next relationship.

I wanted to make sure that I had done everything I could. 

What did I do to save my relationship?

As a relationship coach I had already tried many popular and recommended techniques of communication.   However, these only provided some improvements in the short term.  

We soon reverted back to our old patterns.

Theses methods certainly didn't help my anxiety about us not lasting the course go away. 

I needed to find a long term solution.

Thankfully, I came across this little known information that changed the course of my marriage for good.

It is crucial information that all women need to know.

It is this that I want to share with you.  In a nutshell.....

"men and women are not meant to communicate
with each other in the same way!"

You may be thinking 'well I don't communicate the same as my partner....I talk more openly than he does.....or 'he's defensive, I'm not like that'.
This is not what I mean.
Men & women are biologically wired to need different things when it comes to relationships.
As a result, to ensure your needs are met in your love life....
...it is essential to learn how to communicate in a way that helps your partner meet your needs (& vice versa).
Popular relationship communication techniques encourage couples to communicate using the same technique as each other.
Whilst these techniques are useful for developing compassion & empathy they only go so far.
Believe me I have tried a lot of them & even trained in some.
They did not help me radically transform my relationship & take it onto the level it is now.
At best, they create short term incremental change & at worst they encourage continued codependency.
Codependency is the norm in the majority of relationships, although most people are not aware they are in this dynamic.
This is why couples counselling generally has a bad reputation.

What my clients are saying:

"My husband & I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.  After 10 years, we were close to divorce. Not because we wanted to but because it seemed like there was no other way possible....  We didn't regret it & thank god we did it! The structure she provided is very powerful

& helped us interact in a new & healthier way.


Michele changed my life & I will never be thankful enough that our paths crossed one day!
Thank you Michele"

AUDREY  //  Career Coach // Switzerland

"Every time I work with you Michele, magic happens.. Like literally....
....You wouldn't believe the outpouring of love I have had since then.  So wonderful. He did totally get it and I know that this is a way of showing up  in my relationship that I will continue to build on rather than  keep slipping back into my default habits.  


I just wanted to say thank you!"

JENNIE  //  Personal Trainer // France

You Too can create the relationship

you truly desire where you feel

deeply loved and connected

You don't need to wait for your partner

You don't need to avoid the difficult conversations

You don't need to be lonely in your relationship

AND

You have EVERYTHING you need inside of you to transform your current situation

The Feminine Communication Guide
will help you create a relationship where:

 Your partner is willing to step up and take responsibility

You feel supported and considered in your needs and desires

You enjoy consistent emotional connection

Your communication is open and honest

You feel desired in the way you want to be

You both know how to deal with 'uncomfortable' conversations
in a way that creates growth for each of you & the relationship

What You Will Receive When You Purchase 

The Feminine Communication Guide

  1. 1
    The full 48 page guide with a detailed explanation of how we are conditioned to keep love at arm's length and what you can do about this. How the communication sounds with advice on how to help you start using it in your relationship, as well as any pitfalls to look out for.
  2. 2
    The story of when I called off my wedding! How my sabotage created a disaster scenario in my first relationship & even threatened the marriage to the man I really loved (my now husband).
  3. 3
    BONUS ONE: A copy of my Relationship SELF ASSESSMENT.  This is an in-depth review to help you become more aware of how and why you are likely keeping love at arm's length (like many women).
  4. 4
    BONUS TWO:  How Healthy Polarity Can Help You Create A Relationship Where You Feel Deeply Loved.  This bonus lesson will give you more examples of how your partner can meet your needs in a very loving way.
  5. 5
    BONUS THREE: Connecting With The True Masculine Meditation. This meditation will help you to connect with healing & generative true masculine energy. The meditation also has binaural beats & sound technology will help you to relax your nervous system.
  6. 6
    BONUS FOUR: How To Use The Present Moment To Create Radical Transformation In Your Relationship.  This bonus lesson will give you specific examples of how you can communicate what is happening to you in the present in order to create consistent connection with your partner.

MICHELE WILLMOTT  //  Mentor & Coach

Michele is a fully certified coach and psychotherapist. She mentors professional men, women & couples, helping them move past unconscious sabotage in their love life.

She has just moved back to the UK after living in a ski resort in France for 13 years.

Her ideal day is a walk along the coast, with her miniature schnauzer Megan, followed by a stop at a country pub for lunch.  

Michele's mission is to help as many men and women as possible to transform & renew connection with their partner, so that they can create a deep, lasting and passionate love together. 

Michele Willmott

feedback from other Happy Clients

I am really happy to say that working with Michele has helped me see that my relationship is worth saving, and that looking to the future I feel more trust in my intuition, as well as more confidence that by using the archetypes framework and the communication guide, my partner and I can work our way through any blips.
Thank you so much Michele."

ANNIE  //  Coach // UK

powerful relationship mentoring for couples

"It is actually hard for me to put into words how good Michele is at what she does. Her methods of communication have completely changed my life, literally...
...I have learned how to take full responsibility for what is going on for me & also  allow my partner to take full responsibility for himself rather than blaming myself all the time!
I cannot tell you how much this has transformed my relationship.  I am really proud of my ability to express what I am looking for without blaming or criticising my partner- it's literally all thanks to Michele's coaching.

sara  //  HR Director // LONDON, UK

The Best Time to start changing your relationship for the better is Now!

Congratulations on being brave enough to know that you need to change the dynamic of your relationship and knowing that it is ok to ask for help in doing this.  You know that it will take lots of small steps in the right direction but this is your first step.  

Right here - today!


Frequently Asked Questions

What if my partner is not willing to work on our relationship?

I say to my clients is that if you know your partner is a decent human being, then the chances are he will change in line with the changes you are making within yourself. You will receive a great deal of beneficial information and learnings during throughout this guide. These will help you both communicate differently to before. Most men have a far greater capacity to meet their partner than women give them credit for. 

Is this communication guide only for women in relationships or would single women benefit as well?

This guide will benefit all women regardless of their relationship status. If you are single it will put you in a great position to help you make better decisions when it comes to dating as well as helping you start off the right footing with a new partner.