How Changing Your Love Paradigm Will Help You Radically Transform Your Relationship!

The reason why you, like so many women, feel stuck & frustrated in your love life

is because the old Paradigm for love does not work.

When you feel you have tried everything it is time to approach love in a completely new way.

This is how I saved my marriage & took it on to a whole new level of connection & intimacy.

With the New Paradigm for love

You Can Create the Relationship you desire 

Where You Feel Deeply Loved & Connected

Even If You Are:

→ Thinking Of Leaving

→Feeling alone as he is not present or engaged with you

→Thinking 'My Partner Won't Change!'

→Feeling More Like Roommates Than Lovers

→Thinking 'It Is Easier To Be Single'

→Resentful because he is defensive or avoidant

If You Are Yearning For A Relationship Where...

Your partner is willing to step up and take responsibility

You feel supported and considered in your needs and desires

You enjoy consistent emotional connection

Your communication is open and honest

You feel desired in the way you want to be

You both know how to deal with tension in a way that creates connection....

...then changing your love paradigm is the first place to start because 

you will start having a very different relationship with love itself.

You will also start to claim back your power to be a true creator in your reality, in a world that

programs you to unconsciously believe you are powerless to change things.

Here's My Story

3 years ago and after 16 years of marriage.......  

.....despite my relationship being generally a happy one, I couldn’t understand why I was experiencing moments of loneliness and disconnection.  I also felt we were missing passion and spontaneity.

I started to think that maybe it was time to leave.

As a coach I was feeling a lot of pressure to 'upgrade' my relationship.  

Perhaps I was meant to be with someone else?

I loved him but I wanted more.

I wanted a man who was more passionate about us.  A man who was more alive, dynamic and expressive.

I wasn't sure whether he could match up to my vision. Whether he could truly meet me in my desires and needs.

The thought of leaving petrified me.

I didn't want to jump ship then realise I had made the biggest mistake of my life or repeat the same patterns in my next relationship. I wanted to make sure that I had done everything I could.

As a relationship coach I had already tried many popular and recommended techniques. However, these only provided some improvements in the short term.  

We always ended up reverting back to our old patterns.

Theses methods certainly didn't help my anxiety about us not lasting go away. 

I needed to find a long term solution.

I started to get curious and began to realise that some of my behaviours were not helping, in fact they were keeping love at arm's length.   

I started to research and stumbled across some little known work that represented...

"a new approach to love that lays the foundations for long lasting change."

The more I did the work the better our relationship became.

What made all the difference?


The fact that love is an energy and that it comes from us.

This means that we have a far greater ability to create love and connection than we realise.

We don't need to wait for our partner.

We don't need to avoid difficult conversations....in fact it is the difficult ones that help us create the connection we are looking for. We don't need to be lonely in our relationship.

The other thing that I did was to take time to understand how we ALL fall into sabotaging patterns in our relationships in order to protect ourselves from getting hurt.

This new knowledge and understanding enabled me to transform and heal:

  •  My relationship with my emotions.
  •  My relationship with masculine energy and men.  I began to feel provided for and 'chosen' in love rather than feeling hurt and a sense that something was missing.
  •  My unconscious patterns that were running the show without me even realising.
  •  My relationship with my own innate power.

My Online Course

'The New Paradigm For Love'

 Will Show You How To Do This, So That You Can Transform Your Love Life too. 

When one of my clients changed her
Love Paradigm,

this is what happened...


My husband & I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.  After 10 years, we were close to divorce.

Not because we wanted to but because it seemed
like there was no other way possible....  

We didn't regret it & thank god we did it!
The structure Michele provided is very powerful & helped us interact in a new & healthier way.

Michele changed my life & I will never be thankful enough that our paths crossed one day!
Thank you Michele

Audrey Career Coach

It took commitment and being willing to make mistakes

in order to create the relationship I was looking for.  

Once I decided to change my love paradigm and do this work,

EVERYTHING started to shift for the better.

You are meant to feel supported and deeply loved for all of who you are. 

I invite you to step up and claim this for yourself.

The paradigm is here to support you every step of the way.

Get the complete

'The New Paradigm for Love' Online Course.

This course will help you to  

uncover & transform the patterns of behaviour 

(that we ALL fall into) that keep love at arm's length.

 It is then you will start to become an energetic match
for the relationship you really want. 

'The New Paradigm For Love' online course will help you start to see patterns of sabotage that you are not aware of and which have been keeping you from creating the kind of love and connection you have always wanted. 

It will help you understand how to transform the behaviours that are keeping you stuck, so that you can create a love life that changes for the long term not just in the short term.

You Can buy it for Just £28

These are the Modules You'll Find Inside The course

Discover the New Paradigm

 for Love.

Why society sets men & women up to fail in their love lives. Why your internal programming is based on this approach without you even realizing it & how to change it.

What exactly is Relationship Sabotage and why does it happen?

Discover the main lie that all relationship sabotage is based on and why this causes you to keep love at arm’s length.

How to work with your emotions to create the relationship 
you desire.

How to stop 'managing' your emotions (old paradigm) and actually work with them to create transformation in your romantic life (new paradigm).

What is your unconscious sabotage 

really saying?

Uncover the deeper roots of your sabotage and why you either end up rejecting your partner and pushing him away or why you fear rejection and feel rejected.

The true nature of your power
when it comes to creating the
love you truly desire

Discover how to start claiming your power back and creating far more connection and intimacy in your
love life.

The Importance of 

Enhancing your inner boundaries

Discover why the health of your inner boundaries will determine your ability to create the love you want. Also find out the real truth about using boundaries in your relationship.

What you will also learn and discover in this Online course.

  • Discover THE TRUTH about Love being an energy & what this entails.
  •  How to start changing the paradigm or framework within which you are operating in your romantic life, so that you can become more magnetic to the passionate, alive & emotionally connected relationship you desire. 
  •  What behaviours to watch out for that are the norm (but not normal or healthy) in the outdated paradigm.
  •  Learn the behaviours & qualities that are an integral part of the  New Paradigm for Love.
  •  Heal your relationship with your own masculine energy, so that your inner feminine WILL feel provided for & met in her needs & desires.
  •  How to transform fear & anxiety in your love life.
  •  Why it is important to change your relationship with your mind, so that it stops sabotaging you and your love life (without having to use positive affirmations that don't work).
  •  Uncover the deeper roots of your sabotage & why you either end up rejecting your partner & pushing him away or why you feel you are the one being rejected.
  • Get to the root of your real fears when it comes to love, so that you can move past them, instead of them ruling you. 
  • Why you, like so many women, gaslight yourself without even realising it. How this is holding you back and what to do about it.
  • Uncover the truth about why you are getting triggered in your relationship.
  • Meet one of the main culprits or inner voices when it comes to relationship sabotage & which most women are not even aware of.
  • Learn how your inner boundaries will help you take the responsibility required to create greater freedom & connection in your love life.
  • Discover the importance of working with your body in order to transform your romantic life.
  • Start learning about your power archetypes & how they represent the difference between creating an extraordinary love & one that will make you feel like you are settling.
  • Why & how there is a crisis of power in relationships today & how  this affects you & your love life. Why you have much more power than you realise & what this REALLY means.

What is included in 

'the New Paradigm for Love' Online course.

My Story of Relationship Sabotage - You will hear all the specific details of how I sabotaged and nearly destroyed my marriage and what I did to completely change it around. This will help you to reflect on your own situation and become more aware of how you could be sabotaging things without realising it.

You will receive a Divine Masculine Guided Meditation which will help you change the Love Paradigm WITHIN YOU and which is designed to change your innate point of attraction towards MORE of what you want.

Seven Video or Audio Lessons with transcripts - each going over the different concepts that will help you to change your paradigm for love.

A Divine Masculine Healing Ritual (audio and pdf versions) to help you to develop a new and healthier relationship with masculine energy within you, so that you can start to see this being mirrored in your external reality with your partner or prospective partners.

A SELF ASSESSMENT to check the extent to which you are sabotaging your romantic life. WORKSHEET to help you uncover your real fears and emotions in relation to love.

WORKSHEET to help you uncover your real fears and emotions in relation to love, so that you can work with them to create more love rather than stay stuck fighting them.

You will also receive THREE BONUSES that will support you in your transformation (please see below)

The New Paradigm For Love

 approach Works

Even If......

  • You think your partner is not going to change.
  • You think you have tried everything up until now.
  • You are arguing a lot with your partner.
  • You are experiencing a lot of hurt, frustration and loneliness in your relationship.
  • You are questioning whether your partner loves you enough.
  • You are questioning whether he is good enough.
  • You keep meeting men who are not a good match for you.

You might be thinking that you will need your partner to

do this work with you for this to work but actually you don’t.

The New Paradigm for Love will show you exactly how to start 

healing your relationship with the masculine on all levels & when you do this work,

your external reality has no choice but to line up with your new, clearer energy.

That’s why I’m so excited to be sharing this OFFER with you today!

When you sign up you will get

These 3 Bonuses For Free!

Bonus #1:

Using Your Intuition In Love

This bonus will help you to understand how to improve your intuition,

so that you can take the specific actions that will help transform

your relationship beyond your current level.

Bonus #2:

Your Standards In Love

This bonus illustrates the important knowledge that women

are missing when it comes to having standards in love

Bonus #3:

Self Pleasure Practice

Here you will receive all the information you need to develop your own pleasure practice.

This is a crucial step in helping you to become an energetic

match to the relationship you really want. 

Start Changing Your Relationship Today

By Changing Your Love Paradigm

For Only £28

Here's a recap of this page for those of you who skipped right down here.


→ I saved & completely transformed my marriage onto a whole new level of connection and intimacy by changing my whole approach to love.

→ This enabled me to uncover all the ways I was keeping love at arm's length.

→ No relationship tip I had learnt or coaching qualification helped me on anywhere near the same level. Ultimately my energy was all wrong and this needed changing first. This was an essential step in creating long lasting transformation instead of keep defaulting back to my old patterns.

→ An essential part of this process is to heal your relationship with masculine energy. 

Most women are still relating to the masculine in an unhealthy way without meaning to.

For just £28 you can discover and learn the techniques that helped me overcome the conditioned thinking and behaviour that caused me to keep pushing my husband away, even though I thought I was doing all the right things!

→ If you buy this course today you will also receive 3 bonuses that will enable you to deepen this learning. You will be able to start clearing up your energy & thus your ability to create & attract the relationship you have always wanted.

Here's what some of my recent clients have to say

about their work with me.

Every time I work with you Michele, magic happens.

After our call I wrote a message to my man taking responsibility for
 my actions and emotions. I told him what I wanted. Then I let it all go.

I didn't know how the message would be
received but I felt total peace that either it would be received well,

he would see my heart & would draw close, or if it wasn't received
well, maybe he wasn't the man for me because at the very least I wish for someone who is willing to have an open heart
to my mistakes, to my efforts, to me.

Anyway you wouldn't believe the outpouring of love I have had since then. So wonderful. He did totally get it and I know that this is a way

of showing up in my relationship that I will continue to build on

rather than keep slipping back into my default habits.  

I just wanted to say

thank you.

Jennie - Personal Trainer

It is actually hard for me to put into words how good Michele is at what she does.

Her methods of communication have completely changed my life, literally...

I have learned how to take full responsibility for what is going on for me & also allow my partner to take full responsibility for himself rather than blaming myself all the time!

I cannot tell you how much this has transformed my relationship.  

I am really proud of my ability to express what I am looking for without blaming or criticising my partner - it's literally all thanks to Michele's coaching.

Sara - HR Director

I came to Michele because I felt I was nearing the end of my relationship with my partner.  I knew communication was breaking down & I felt
frustrated that nothing seemed to be working or changing. 

After talking to Michele I quickly realised I had been coming from shadow a

lot of the time when interacting with my partner (and even in my thoughts
about the relationship). This surprised me as I am generally quite self-aware!

I am really happy to say that working with Michele has helped me see that my relationship is worth saving, and that looking to the future I feel more trust in my intuition, as well as more confidence that by using the archetypes framework and the communication guide, my partner and I can work our way through any blips.

Thank you so much Michele.

Annie Coach

Michele Willmott

Creator of The New Paradigm For Love

About Michele

I am a fully certified coach and psychotherapist. I mentor professional men, women & couples, helping them move past unconscious sabotage in their love life.

I have just moved back to the UK after living in a ski resort in France for 13 years. My ideal day is a walk along the coast, with my miniature schnauzer Megan.

My mission is to help as many men and women as possible to transform & renew connection with their partner, so that they can create a deep, lasting and passionate love together. 

The Best Time To Start Changing Your Love Life
 For The Better Is Now!

Congratulations on being brave enough to know that you need to change the dynamic of your relationship and knowing that it is ok to ask for help in doing this.  You know that it will take lots of small steps in the right direction but this is your first step.  



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