Deeply Loved Online Course
Overcome your unconscious sabotage in your romantic life, so that
you can create & enjoy a relationship where you feel Deeply Loved.
Here is the reason why most people
are sabotaging their romantic lives
I come across many people who are sabotaging their relationship
(and I did this too, in my marriage and previous relationships).
They are keeping love at arms length,
because their shadow (the unconscious parts of yourself) is petrified of opening up
and receiving something EXTRAORDINARY in love.
The main reasons why your shadows are so scared of experiencing a DEEP love....
1. It will do anything to NOT experience the rejection or abandonment you often felt as a child
(even if you feel like you had a happy upbringing).
2. Society has conditioned you to relate to your partner from this place of fear
and create relationships based on co-dependency, that are essentially dysfunctional
(even though many people will try to tell you that 'it's normal' or 'just the way life is').
Your shadows (we all have them) can literally be running the show behind the scenes,
causing you to think, feel and behave in ways that only serve to create more
disconnection and unhappiness, even though you think you are doing
your best to create the loving relationship you truly want.
The majority of relationships are co-dependent,
because both parties in some way or another are placing responsibility
for their well-being and happiness onto their partner.
The presence & power of shadow is the main reason why so many relationships end in divorce.
This is terribly sad when the fact is many of these relationships
could have been saved and completely transformed.
I say this because often just around the corner
lies a HUGE transformation in your romantic life.
EVEN if you are experiencing conflict, defensiveness, avoidance,
a lack of emotional and physical connection or whether you feel like you and
your partner are more like room mates than lovers.
Can I really transform my relationship?
I know that you may be questioning the possibility of achieving
such transformation in your current relationship scenario
and it may be more tempting to go online and try to find a quick fix.
I could even give you a number of tips that would
absolutely help improve your relationship.
However, if you try to use these tips when shadow is present
it is not going to help you create the change you are looking for.
There are so many people looking for this elusive, magic pill to help them
fix their relationship. Unfortunately most of them go round and round in
circles experiencing the same old frustrations again and again.
They waste time hoping and praying that their partner is going to change
or that they will meet the right person who will 'save' them.
All the while nothing is really changing because they are only
looking for quick fixes on a surface level rather than
making a commitment to taking a deeper look
and unravelling their unconscious sabotage.
For this reason, if there was just 1 thing I could encourage you to do,
that enabled me (and my clients) to move way beyond patterns of sabotage
and COMPLETELY transform my marriage into something extraordinary
it would be this........
Learn to trust yourself 100%!
(which is something that goes far deeper than
just saying to yourself 'but I do trust myself')
When you learn to trust yourself
THAT MUCH
this is what becomes possible:
Trusting yourself WILL help you to create long-term and long lasting transformation
in your love life, rather than incremental change where you see improvements
but still end up going back to a default state of feeling that something is missing.
When you know that you trust yourself and that you have your own back,
BIG TRANSFORMATION is possible,
where you feel completely seen and heard
and where you know you are DEEPLY LOVED!
I am aware that trusting yourself may sound vague and intangible.
However, if you completely trusted yourself when it comes to your romantic life
you simply would not be looking for advice or reading this information.
You also would not be convincing yourself that you trust yourself,
whilst simultaneously saying 'it's my partner (or men) that I don't trust'.
A woman who trusts herself would not need to do or say these things.
Please don't take this as a judgement.
No-one teaches us how to trust ourselves.
I did not trust myself for a VERY long time.
But I am SO GLAD that I did this work
because it changed everything for me and
it is also changing the lives and relationships of my clients.
WITHOUT this SELF-TRUST
many people tend to keep sabotaging their romantic life over and over.
They then end up spending a whole lifetime carrying that
'something is missing' feeling.
The following explains the difference between those who try to
improve their relationship without such self trust
and those who do the work and develop this inner state of KNOWING.
Things people try to improve their
relationship situation without much success
What happens when you learn
to trust yourself
What Michele's Clients Say
My husband and I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship.
After 10 years, we were close to divorce.
Not because we wanted to but because it seemed like there was no other way possible.
When my husband agreed to do couples coaching, I found Michele and she seemed to
have a different and very direct approach so we decided to choose her as our coach.
We didn't regret it and thank god we did it!
The structure she provided is very powerful and helped us interact in a new and healthier way.
It was a difficult program as our shadows were resistant and there were times where I thought
we would not make it. Michele never gave up and mentored us with all her heart and power.
She is an incredible coach and being a coach myself, I learned so much by interacting with her!
She is direct but also caring. She gives much guidance and direction.
She has been my guide in the dark and I will never forget this experience with Michele!
What I have learned is not only about how to interact with my husband in a different way
but also how to be a more empowered human being. I have been transforming and
I can say with confidence that I am not the same person today that I was 3 months ago.
I definitely recommend this program to anyone. It is definitely worth every cent.
Michele is there for you EVERY step of the way, doing the extra mile when needed.
Michele changed my life and I will never be thankful enough that
our paths crossed one day!
Thank you Michele.
AUDREY, LAUSANNE, SWITZERLAND
Career Coach
Deeply Loved Online Programme
is for you if.....
Where does this leave you?
Going round and round in circles, repeating the same conversations,
having the same arguments, experiencing the same avoidance
and same patterns of behaviours with your partner, but never getting anywhere.
I imagine you are tired of compromising your standards and living a lack lustre love life and that you feel scared of the consequences of continuing in this way?
A life half-lived. The lack of fulfillment.
Not feeling desired or deeply loved and cared for!
So you think...
May be it is time to leave after all!
But what if I don’t find someone new or worse still,
attract the same type of relationship and lack of connection?
Maybe it’s me after all?
What shall I do?
And it goes on....
damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Let me ask you, what would it be like for you if you
TRUSTED YOURSELF 100%
when it came to not only knowing whether to leave or to stay
but also in terms of creating more love, connection,freedom
and fun in your love life than EVER before?
I want you to know that
you have SO MUCH MORE INNATE POWER
to change your relationship scenario for the better than you could ever imagine.
Again no-one teaches you what such 'innate power' actually means or looks like.
This is exactly why I designed the
Love Alchemy Framework™
which forms the fundamental foundations of
this DEEPLY LOVED Online Course.
This course teaches you what you need to know about being in your true power,
so that you can indeed become a POWERFUL CREATOR in your own life
rather than leaving it all to chance or being a victim of circumstance.
What You Will Learn
The LOVE ALCHEMY FRAMEWORK™
Why & how this framework will help you replace old, out of date conditioned behaviours when it comes to love.
What exactly is Shadow?
How it can have a destructive effect when it comes to love.
What to look out for. Why it is a Gift.
How you can work WITH it to help
you transform your situation.
The 4 Main Patterns of Sabotage
that show up in all relationships.
What they look and sound like.How you can start healing these patterns, so that you can be a more powerful creator in your love life.
How to Claim Back Your True Power
What being in your true creative power really means, looks and sounds like when it comes to love.
The 4 Power Couple Archetypes
Their qualities and characteristics.
How, you can start to embody them, so that they can you heal your sabotage
patterns and create more love
in your relationship
Empowered Masculine and
Feminine Energies
The differences between the two.
How they show up when it comes
to love & how you can cultivate a healthier relationship with your own
Inner Feminine and Masculine.
The Best Way to Work with Your Mind
Your mind when used in the wrong
way is responsible for a great degree
of sabotage. Learn how to use
it in a way that works for
you rather than against you.
How to Work with Your Body
Your body is a hugely powerful tool
that often gets ignored in personal development work. Learn how to work with it, so that you can become a far greater energetic match to what you
want in your romantic life.
How to Create a Healthy
NON-Codependent Relationship
Tips on how to communicate & relate to your partner in such a way that creates connection & intimacy.
What Michele's Clients Say
I had reached a stage in my relationship with my husband where the option
seemed to be leaving or divorce. But I've always felt leaving was too easy -
it denies that there are two people that hold responsibility for making a relationship work.
In our intensive session Michele was able to help me arise insights
about how my poor behaviour was impacting my husband,
that in fact women hold a great deal of power over men and it needs to be used gently.
Michele was able to help me identify a source of my break with my own empowered
masculine energy and do a timeline healing that was quite extraordinary in its impact.
I'm now able to hold space for my husband and allow him to express what he needs in his own way without feeling
he is attacking me. I feel that my own relationship with my empowered masculine has been transformed and
I am able to self source the love that I kept constantly looking to my husband to provide.
There has also been a real shift in our dynamic and the constant arguments have stopped.
Michele in herself is funny, kind and strong and will call you out!
She can spot something that needs addressing from the tiniest sentence,
which is a great testament to her wisdom and intuition.
I would have no qualms in recommending Michele's work if you feel in need
of help with your relationship, or indeed, or attitude to men in general.
Thank you.
Susan, Essex,United kingdom
Author
Every time I work with you Michele, magic happens.. Like literally...
After our call I wrote a message to my man taking responsibility for my shadow
and therefore my actions and emotions. I told him what I wanted (he had actually asked me but I was
not in the right space to even answer). Then I let it all go.
All the little things that I had logged which were telling me that he doesn't care
because actually there were 1000 other things that pointed to the fact that he does...
I didn't know how the message would be received but I felt total peace that either it would be received well,
he would see my heart and would draw close, or if it wasn't received well,
maybe he wasn't the man for me because at the very least I wish for someone who is willing to have an
open heart to my mistakes, to my efforts, to me....
Anyway you wouldn't believe the outpouring of love I have had since then.
So wonderful!
He did totally get it and I know that this is a way of showing up in my relationship that
I will continue to build on rather than keep slipping back into my default habits.
Plus weirdly the stress that I have felt about possibly the most challenging week
of my life ever has gone. I just wanted to say thank you.
MARIE, CHICHESTER,UNITED KINGDOM
Personal Trainer & Coach
Deeply Loved
What you will receive...
A message from your host
I would love to tell you that I have one perfect tip that will transform your relationship every time you use it.
I will be sharing a number of tips with you throughout this course
that will absolutely help you transform your relationship.
Your love life, however, is not linear, it is unique to you
& your history of conditioning & experiences.
It is for this reason that I stand by the fact that it is more important for you to undo
your old conditioned behaviours and thinking when it comes to love,
than it is to try and 'fix' your relationship.
It is essential to re-build the foundations on which your love is built!
What will work for one person will not work for another.
We all have different desires and values.
If you try to input certain tools & tips & do this from shadow energy,
they will not work, in fact they will only get you more of what you don't want.
It is crucial that you learn to understand your own patterns of sabotage
and understand how you can overcome them, in order that you can get to
a place where you trust yourself every day.
Trust yourself to show up and create something extraordinary with your partner,
without always having to resort to questioning yourself; comparing your relationship with other people's relationship; thinking there is something wrong with you or your partner & always checking the internet to find a solution.
Deeply Loved....
is the course that I needed years ago.
I did not trust myself.
I did not know what trusting yourself really meant.
However, once I committed to undoing my conditioning, healing the parts of myself that needed healing,
and learning all about shadow and sabotage, I started to take back my power.
I began to realise that I was the only one who
was going to save me from living a below par love life.
This is when everything started to change.
An extraordinary relationship is never going to be handed to you on a plate.
A knight in shining armour is not just going to appear and
provide the solutions to all our problems
(until you do the work that is, then watch everything start to change).
This is all about you giving yourself permission to do things your way.
I cannot promise you an easy ride, but it hands down beats the constant struggle and
unhappiness when you get stuck in playing a 'waiting' game.
What I can promise you however, is that when you commit fully to transforming
yourself, it will be well worth it & you will be thankful everyday
you have done this FOR YOURSELF!
Frequently Asked Questions
This course will benefit all women regardless of their relationship status. If you are single it will put you in a great position to help you make better decisions when it comes to dating as well as helping you start off the right footing with a new partner.
This is an online course & self-study program. It is designed for you to work at your own pace work & absorb the learnings in the right time frame for you. If you need more live support and are willing to invest more, you can book a call with me here.
If you partner is repeatedly not willing to step up, then this is not a great sign. However, what I say to my clients is that if you know your partner is a decent human being, then the chances are he will change in line with the changes you are making within yourself. You will receive a great deal of beneficial information and learnings during this course that will help YOU show up differently, which means that your partner will experience you differently as a result and respond accordingly. In most cases I find that women are too quick to discount their partners.
This course is delivered online. You will be able to login with your name & password & access all of the course teachings here. Much of the work is downloadable & you can also listen on your phone or tablet. You will have lifetime access to all the material.
This course is ALL about you getting to know your own sabotaging patterns on a much deeper level. This is an investment in your long-term fulfilment when it comes to love. You will be building far stronger foundations moving forwards than ever before.
This is a common objection that our mind likes to tell us and demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of time. Time is only ever now. You are at choice as to whether we commit fully or not. You also have the choice to do this at your own pace without buying-in to any need to rush or 'hustle'.
No woman who really trusts herself would ever say this! When you trust yourself you understand that it is YOU who has the power to create moments of love and connection in any given moment.
I do not offer a refund on this course as I believe in all-in or all-out commitment. Stepping in and then stepping out isn’t allowed.
Plus, this is a digital product and we cannot make you un-access it once you have downloaded it.
This question is a sign of a lack of self trust. This course requires you to back yourself to do what is necessary to transform yourself & your love life, this is a theme that continues from the moment you sign up.
Yes, absolutely. You will receive a copy of my 'Feminine Communication' Guide at no extra cost, when you sign up. This form of communication is actually very simple, but requires you to understand the intricacies of how shadow shows up in your relationship. This is exactly what the Deeply Loved course is designed to help you with, so that you can also use the communication with this knowledge & understanding behind you.
Creating Extraordinary In Love