Deeply Loved Online Course

Overcome your unconscious sabotage in your romantic life, so that
you can create & enjoy a relationship where you feel Deeply Loved.

Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

Are you questioning your partner?

Even thinking of leaving your relationship?

Or maybe it's just a case of knowing deep down there is a greater level
of emotional and physical connection to enjoy....

and this is causing all that questioning in your head?

Before you do something drastic, because let's face it, it often seems easier to

jump ship than it does to stay and try to work things out with your current partner,


I urge you to consider the following:

It is HIGHLY likely you are SABOTAGING your romantic life without even realising it!

(unless you are experiencing abuse or a major clash of values).

Here is the reason why most people
are sabotaging their romantic lives

I come across many people who are sabotaging their relationship

(and I did this too, in my marriage and previous relationships).

They are keeping love at arms length,

because their shadow (the unconscious parts of yourself) is petrified of opening up

and receiving something EXTRAORDINARY in love.

The main reasons why your shadows are so scared of experiencing a DEEP and Truly Intimate love.... 

1. They will do anything to NOT experience the rejection or abandonment you often felt as a child

 (even if you feel like you had a happy upbringing).

2. Society has conditioned you to relate to your partner from this place of fear

and create relationships based on co-dependency, that are essentially dysfunctional 

(even though many people will try to tell you that 'it's normal' or 'just the way life is').

Your shadows (we all have them) can literally be running the show behind the scenes, 

causing you to think, feel and behave in ways that only serve to create more

disconnection and unhappiness, even though you think you are doing

your best to create the loving relationship you truly want.

The majority of relationships are co-dependent,

because both parties in some way or another are placing responsibility 

for their well-being and happiness onto their partner.

The presence & power of shadow is the main reason why so many relationships end in divorce. 

This is terribly sad when the fact is many of these relationships 

could have been saved and completely transformed.

I say this because often just around the corner

lies a HUGE transformation in your romantic life.

EVEN if you are experiencing conflict, defensiveness, avoidance,

a lack of emotional and physical connection or whether you feel like you and

your partner are more like room mates than lovers.

Can I really transform my relationship?

I know that you may be questioning the possibility of achieving

such transformation in your current relationship scenario

and it may be more tempting to go online and try to find a quick fix.

I could even give you a number of tips that would

absolutely help improve your relationship.

However, if you try to use these tips when shadow is present

it is not going to help you create the change you are looking for. 

There are so many people looking for this elusive, magic pill to help them fix their relationship. Unfortunately most of them go round and round in circles experiencing the same old frustrations again and again.

They waste time hoping and praying that their partner is going to change or that they will meet the right person who will 'save' them.

All the while nothing is really changing because they are only

looking for quick fixes on a surface level rather than 

making a commitment to taking a deeper look 

and unravelling their unconscious sabotage.

For this reason, if there was just 1 thing I could encourage you to do, 

that enabled me (and my clients) to move way beyond patterns of sabotage

and COMPLETELY transform my marriage into something extraordinary

it would be this........

Learn to trust yourself 100%!

(which is something that goes far deeper than 

just saying to yourself 'but I do trust myself')

When you learn to trust yourself
this is what becomes possible:

  • You achieve absolute clarity over whether you really want to stay or to leave your current relationship
  • You trust yourself & your partner's ability to create moments of deep and beautiful connection and intimacy.
  • You are able to navigate any uncomfortable conversations with ease
  • You can experience a relationship where arguments are a thing of the past
  • Your relationship becomes an ever unfolding adventure where you get to celebrate each other's achievements and support each other through every transition.
  •  You KNOW when and how to express yourself to your partner in way that creates greater connection rather than more unhappiness.

Trusting yourself WILL help you to create long-term and long lasting transformation

in your love life, rather than incremental change where you see improvements

but still end up going back to a default state of feeling that something is missing. 

When you know that you trust yourself and that you have your own back, 

BIG TRANSFORMATION is possible, where you feel completely seen and heard 

and where you know you are DEEPLY LOVED!

I am aware that trusting yourself may sound vague and intangible.

However, if you completely trusted yourself when it comes to your romantic life

you simply would not be looking for advice or reading this information.

You also would not be convincing yourself that you trust yourself, 
whilst simultaneously saying 'it's my partner (or men) that I don't trust'.

A woman who trusts herself would not need to do or say these things.

Please don't take this as a judgement.

No-one teaches us how to trust ourselves.

I did not trust myself for a VERY long time.

But I am SO GLAD that I did this work

because it changed everything for me and

it is also changing the lives and relationships of my clients. 


many people tend to keep sabotaging their romantic life over and over.

They then end up spending a whole lifetime carrying that

'something is missing' feeling.  

The following explains the difference between those who try to

improve their relationship without such self trust

and those who do the work and develop this inner state of KNOWING.

Things people try to improve their 

relationship situation without much success

  • They try incorporating relationship communication advice or connection tips, but they do this from and with the wrong energy, which means that they do not experience the result they want or long lasting transformation.
  • They leave their relationship and take a leap of faith. They then end up struggling with the financial, mental and emotional consequences on themselves, their family and their children.
  • They leave their relationship, fall in love with someone new and end up repeating the same patterns of behaviour again (the main reason why such a high percentage of 2nd and 3rd marriages end in divorce)
  • They stay and make up their minds to work on their relationship, but nothing really changes because they are not willing to look more deeply at their own unconscious sabotage and invest in any or the right kind of support that is going to make the BIGGEST difference
  • They go to couples therapy and talk about their problems but don’t really get anywhere or make incremental changes over time, which still don't serve to overcome that feeling of 'something is missing'.
  • They remain in a codependent relationship.

What happens when you learn

to trust yourself

  • You get clear on what you want in a relationship and who you want to be in your love life and you commit to living in integrity with yourself.
  • You replace your old love paradigm with a new one by healing your relationship with your inner feminine and masculine energy, so that your feminine can receive in the way she truly desires, without struggle,blame, conflict and upset.  
  • You learn how to deal with your emotions without managing them and in such a way that creates a deep emotional connection with your partner. 
  • You improve your internal and external boundaries
  • You learn how to communicate with true honesty.
  • You create transformation on your own terms,trusting that exactly the right piece of information will come along at the right time to take your relationship onto the next level.
  • You learn to make decisions that are aligned with your values rather than just out of fear or because that’s what you are supposed to do. This in itself creates huge transformation merely because you are aligned and vibrating with the energy of intention.

What Michele's Clients Say 

My husband and I were going through a very big crisis in our relationship. 

After 10 years, we were close to divorce.  

Not because we wanted to but because it seemed like there was no other way possible.  

When my husband agreed to do couples coaching, I found Michele and she seemed to have a different 
and very direct approach so we decided to choose her as our coach.

We didn't regret it and thank god we did it! 

The structure she provided is very powerful and helped us interact
in a new and healthier way. 

It was a difficult program as our shadows were resistant and there were
times where I thought we would not make it. Michele never gave up and
mentored us with all her heart and power. 

She is an incredible coach and being a coach myself, I learned so much  by interacting with her! 

She is direct but also caring. She gives much guidance and direction.

She has been my guide in the dark and I will never forget this experience with Michele! 

What I have learned is not only about how to interact with my husband in a different way but also how to
be a more empowered human being. I have been transforming and I can say with confidence that

I am not the same person today that I was 3 months ago.

I definitely recommend this program to anyone. It is definitely worth every cent.

Michele is there for you EVERY step of the way, doing the extra mile when needed.

Michele changed my life and I will never be thankful enough that our paths crossed one day!

Thank you Michele.


Career Coach

Deeply Loved Online Programme 

is for you if.....

  • You have followed lots of tips and advice or invested in self development work but nothing is changing.
  • You keep wondering if there is someone else out there to whom you would be better suited.
  • You relationship is lacking the deep emotional and physical intimacy you really want.
  • You always seem to be the one initiating date nights, quality time together, conversations.
  • You are wondering whether you need to be more feminine or how to be more feminine
  • You secretly wish your partner was more romantic, dynamic, decisive and inspiring.
  • You are wondering whether you are leaving your partner behind, because you seem to have grown apart and want different things.
  • Your partner doesn't seem to understand you and you don't feel seen or heard.
  • Your partner is defensive or dismissive when you try to explain how you feel.
  • You are confused about all of the conflicting (and often cheesy advice) on what to say, how to say it when it comes to relationships
  • You are concerned that your physical desire for your partner is waning or that you have a higher sex drive than him
  • You are experiencing repetitive cycles of loneliness, disconnection or conflict 

Where does this leave you?

Going round and round in circles, repeating the same conversations, 

having the same arguments, experiencing the same avoidance

and same patterns of behaviours with your partner, but never getting anywhere.  

I imagine you are tired of compromising your standards and living a lack lustre love life and that you feel scared of the consequences of continuing in this way? 

A life half-lived. The lack of fulfillment.

Not feeling desired or deeply loved and cared for!

So you think...

May be it is time to leave after all!  

But what if I don’t find someone new or worse still, 

attract the same type of relationship and lack of connection?  

Maybe it’s me after all?  

What shall I do?

And it goes on....

damned if you do, damned if you don't. 

Let me ask you, what would it be like for you if you


when it came to not only knowing whether to leave or to stay

but also in terms of creating more love, connection,freedom

and fun in your love life than EVER before?

I want you to know that 


to change your relationship scenario for the better than you could ever imagine.

Again no-one teaches you what such 'innate power' actually means or looks like.

This is exactly why I designed the

Love Alchemy Framework™ 

which forms the fundamental foundations of

this DEEPLY LOVED Online Course.

This course teaches you what you need to know about being in your true power, 

so that you can indeed become a POWERFUL CREATOR in your own life

rather than leaving it all to chance or being a victim of circumstance.

Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

What You Will Learn


Why & how this framework will help you replace old, out of date conditioned behaviours when it comes to love.

What exactly is Shadow?

How it can have a destructive effect when it comes to love. What to look out for. Why it is a Gift.

How you can work WITH it to help

you transform your situation.

The 4 Main Patterns of Sabotage

that show up in all relationships.

What they look and sound like. How you can start healing these patterns, so that you can be a
more powerful creator in your love life.

How to Claim Back Your True Power

What being in your true creative power really means, looks and sounds like when it comes to love. 

The 4 Power Couple Archetypes

Their qualities and characteristics. 

How, you can start to embody them, so that they can you heal your sabotage patterns and create more love in your relationship

Empowered Masculine and

Feminine Energies

The differences between the two. How they show up when it comes to love & how you can cultivate a healthier relationship with your own Inner Feminine and Masculine. 

The Best Way to Work with Your Mind

Your mind when used in the wrong way is responsible for a great degree of sabotage. Learn how to use it in a way that works for you rather than against you.  

How to Work with Your Body

Your body is a hugely powerful tool that often gets ignored in personal development work. Learn how to work with it, so that you can become a far greater energetic match to what you want in your romantic life.

 How to Create a Healthy 

NON-Codependent Relationship 

Tips on how to communicate & relate to your partner in such a way that creates connection & intimacy.

Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

What Michele's Clients Say 

I had reached a stage in my relationship with my husband where the option

seemed to be leaving or divorce. But I've always felt leaving was too easy - 

it denies that there are two people that hold responsibility for making a relationship work.

In our intensive session Michele was able to help me arise insights

about how my poor behaviour was impacting my husband, 

that in fact women hold a great deal of power over men and it needs to be used gently.

 Michele was able to help me identify a source of my break with my own empowered

masculine energy and do a timeline healing that was quite extraordinary in its impact. 

I'm now able to hold space for my husband and allow him to express what he needs in his own way without feeling he is attacking me. I feel that my own relationship with my empowered masculine has been transformed and I am able to self source the love that I kept constantly looking to
my husband to provide. There has also been a real shift in our dynamic and the constant arguments have stopped.  

Michele in herself is funny, kind and strong and will call you out! 

She can spot something that needs addressing from the tiniest sentence,

which is a great testament to her wisdom and intuition.  I would have no qualms in recommending Michele's work if you feel
in need of help with your relationship, or indeed, or attitude to men in general. 

Thank you.

Susan, Essex,United kingdom


Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

 Every time I work with you Michele, magic happens.. Like literally...

After our call I wrote a message to my man taking responsibility for my shadow

and therefore my actions and emotions. I told him what I wanted (he had actually asked me but I was not in the right space to even answer).
Then I let it all go. All the little things that I had logged which were telling me that he doesn't care

because actually there were 1000 other things that pointed to the fact that he does...

I didn't know how the message would be received but I felt total peace that either it would be received well,
he would see my heart and would draw close, or if it wasn't received well,

maybe he wasn't the man for me because at the very least I wish for someone who is willing to have an
open heart to my mistakes, to my efforts, to me....

Anyway you wouldn't believe the outpouring of love I have had since then. 

So wonderful!

He did totally get it and I know that this is a way of showing up in my relationship that

I will continue to build on rather than keep slipping back into my default habits.

Plus weirdly the stress that I have felt about possibly the most challenging week

of my life ever has gone. I just wanted to say thank you.


Personal Trainer & Coach

Deeply Loved

What you will receive...

  • Detailed PDF Workbook for you to complete
  • Over 2 hours of Video Presentations on the Different Patterns of Relationship Sabotage
  • Over 2 hours of Video Presentation on the Power Couple Archetypes
  • 6 x Audio Coaching Sessions (somatic body work meets cognitive intelligence)
  • 4 x Guided Meditations 
  • PDF transcripts of all video presentations if you prefer to read
  • BONUS - Free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide which is designed to help you communicate in such a way that your partner is willing to devote himself to meet you in your needs & desires

Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

A message from your host

I would love to tell you that I have one perfect tip that will transform your relationship every time you use it.

 I will be sharing a number of tips with you throughout this course

that will absolutely help you transform your relationship. 

 Your love life, however, is not linear, it is unique to you 

& your history of conditioning & experiences.

It is for this reason that I stand by the fact that it is more important for you to undo

your old conditioned behaviours and thinking when it comes to love, 

than it is to try and 'fix' your relationship.

It is essential to re-build the foundations on which your love is built!

 What will work for one person will not work for another.

We all have different desires and values.

If you try to input certain tools & tips & do this from shadow energy, 

they will not work, in fact they will only get you more of what you don't want.

It is crucial that you learn to understand your own patterns of sabotage

and understand how you can overcome them, in order that you can get to

a place where you trust yourself every day.

Trust yourself to show up and create something extraordinary with your partner,

without always having to resort to questioning yourself; comparing your relationship with other people's relationship;
thinking there is something wrong with you or your partner & always checking the internet to find a solution.

Deeply Loved....

 is the course that I needed years ago.

I did not trust myself.

I did not know what trusting yourself really meant.

However, once I committed to undoing my conditioning, healing the parts of myself that needed healing,
and learning all about shadow and sabotage, I started to take back my power.

I began to realise that I was the only one who was going to save me from
living a below par love life.

This is when everything started to change.

An extraordinary relationship is never going to be handed to you on a plate.

A knight in shining armour is not just going to appear and

 provide the solutions to all our problems

(until you do the work that is, then watch everything start to change).

This is all about you giving yourself permission to do things your way.

I cannot promise you an easy ride, but it hands down beats the constant struggle and

unhappiness when you get stuck in playing a 'waiting' game.

What I can promise you however, is that when you commit fully to transforming

yourself, it will be well worth it & you will be thankful everyday

you have done this FOR YOURSELF!

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course for women in a relationship only or would single ladies benefit?

This course will benefit all women regardless of their relationship status. If you are single it will put you in a great position to help you make better decisions when it comes to dating as well as helping you start off the right footing with a new partner.

Will I get 1 on 1 advice from Michele?

This is an online course & self-study program. It is designed for you to work at your own pace work & absorb the learnings in the right time frame for you. If you need more live support and are willing to invest more, you can book a call with me here.

What if my partner is not willing to work on our relationship?

 If you partner is repeatedly not willing to step up, then this is not a great sign. However, what I say to my clients is that if you know your partner is a decent human being, then the chances are he will change in line with the changes you are making within yourself. You will receive a great deal of beneficial information and learnings during this course that will help YOU show up differently, which means that your partner will experience you differently as a result and respond accordingly. In most cases I find that women are too quick to discount their partners. 


How is the course delivered?

This course is delivered online. You will be able to login with your name & password & access all of the course teachings here. Much of the work is downloadable & you can also listen on your phone or tablet. You will have lifetime access to all the material. 


I have already tried many things to improve my relationship and nothing works, how do I know this will be different? 

This course is ALL about you getting to know your own sabotaging patterns on a much deeper level. This is an investment in your long-term fulfilment when it comes to love. You will be building far stronger foundations moving forwards than ever before.


I am concerned that I don't have the time to do this! 

This is a common objection that our mind likes to tell us and demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of time. Time is only ever now. You are at choice as to whether we commit fully or not. You also have the choice to do this at your own pace without buying-in to any need to rush or 'hustle'. 


I already trust myself, I just don't trust my partner! 

No woman who really trusts herself would ever say this! When you trust yourself you understand that it is YOU who has the power to create moments of love and connection in any given moment.


Are there refunds?

I do not offer a refund on this course as I believe in all-in or all-out commitment. Stepping in and then stepping out isn’t allowed.

Plus, this is a digital product and we cannot make you un-access it once you have downloaded it.

This question is a sign of a lack of self trust. This course requires you to back yourself to do what is necessary to transform yourself & your love life, this is a theme that continues from the moment you sign up.


Will this help improve the communication in my relationship?

Yes, absolutely. You will receive a copy of my 'Feminine Communication' Guide at no extra cost, when you sign up. This form of communication is actually very simple, but requires you to understand the intricacies of how shadow shows up in your relationship. This is exactly what the Deeply Loved course is designed to help you with, so that you can also use the communication with this knowledge & understanding behind you. 


Including a free copy of my Feminine Communication Guide

Creating Extraordinary In Love