Profound Permission®
Most people try to change
their relationship.
Very few change
what is creating it.
Learn to work with your triggers in a way
that activates the magnetism, connection
and intimacy that exist beneath
the patterns keeping you stuck.
Rebuild from a far stronger foundation.
Why understanding isn't enough
You know yourself reasonably well.
You've worked on yourself, had therapy or coaching
read the relationship books
journalled and self reflected
even done the shadow work
You understand, why you react the way you do.
You can see the patterns and link them to your past.
But something still isn't working and you can't work out why.
If understanding was enough, things would already feel different.
But awareness and transformation are not the same thing.
You can recognise you are avoiding conflict and still avoid conflict.
You can recognise you are taking out your anger on your partner and still do it.
This work starts from a different assumption.
The relationship trigger itself is not the problem.
The trigger is an opportunity.
An opportunity to dismantle what is actually shaping the relationship beneath the surface.
An opportunity to shift your state so you can repair conflict situations in a healthier way.
And an opportunity to activate untapped magnetic energy
that is capable of drawing your partner towards you not keeping them at arm's length.
So, this isn't about eliminating triggers.
It's about learning how to work with them at a completely different level.
Because until a trigger is worked with beyond the level of understanding alone,
it becomes very difficult for anything truly different to emerge.
The Loop Most People Never See
Inside every stuck relationship,
the same cycle is running
There's a voice, shaped by years of conditioning, experience, fear, inherited meaning,
and ideas about how relationships are supposed to work.
Before you have even spoken, it decides:
- What your partner's behaviour means.
- What it says about you.
- What is safe or unsafe.
- What needs to happen next.
And that voice triggers the body.
The body responds by tightening, bracing, shutting down,
pursuing, withdrawing, fixing or controlling.
It feeds that voice, confirming everything is already believed.
All the while magnetic energy remains inside that feedback loop,
the connection you desire remains unavailable.
Not because you or partner are incapable of creating it.
But because that energy is still being used to reinforce the pattern.
And until that changes, awareness alone will never create the shift people are hoping for.
Because awareness doesn't automatically change the state you're relating from.
WHAT CHANGES WHEN
THE BODY LEADS
Most approaches work from one direction.
Cognitive approaches help you understand the pattern.
Somatic approaches help you feel differently.
The Profound Permission Method® works with both.
Because understanding alone doesn't change the body's response.
And changing the body's response doesn't always reveal or dismantle what is creating the pattern.
This highly nuanced shadow and power work method activates the magnetic energy lying within your body.
And when this energy is activated, you stop relying solely on insight and communication to navigate the relationship.
A different kind of clarity becomes available.
Not forced.
Not figured out.
But known, confident and alive.
Trusting of your own capacity to create or inspire change.
And from that place,
the relationship starts to be rebuilt
on completely different ground.
What Becomes Available
Most people assume the goal is to become less triggered.
To feel calmer. To react less. To communicate better.
But those things are not the destination.
They are the byproduct.
What becomes available is something far more valuable.
A different way of relating.
One with more openness.
More attraction.
More connection and aliveness.
It becomes one part of the solution rather than the thing holding everything together.
Repair becomes easier.
Responsibility becomes easier to recognise.
You keep coming back to each other.
Able to create more consistent, harmonious and pleasurable connection.
And the relationship starts being built from a completely different place.
One that allows it to thrive over the long-run.
What The Course Covers
The Profound Permission Method® is a structured, self-study programme
that takes you through a clear, sequential process at your own pace.
Here you can work directly with your own relationship patterns and triggers.
The course is organised into four core areas.
I. SHADOW TO POWER
Discover the most common and often hidden patterns that subtly create disconnection whilst appearing reasonable, justified and necessary.
Learn the corresponding states of genuine power that create greater self-trust, connection and magnetism.
II. THE PROFOUND PERMISSION METHOD®
The complete step-by-step process.
Learn how to work with triggering thoughts and feelings.
Shift the emotional and energetic state creating the repetitive patterns.
Activate your natural, attractive and magnetic energy.
Troubleshoot common obstacles.
And apply the method to real situations in your own relationship.
Including demonstrations, examples and guidance on what to do when the process feels stuck.
III. COMMUNICATION FROM A DIFFERENT STATE
Communication matters.
But communication coming from fear creates very different outcomes from communication coming from power.
Learn how to prepare for repair conversations.
When to have a conversation.
When not to.
How to express difficult truths.
How to take responsibility cleanly.
And how to rebuild trust and connection from a different internal state.
..
IV. MASCULINE AND FEMININE CONDITIONING
Men and women are often conditioned differently around emotions, responsibility, communication, safety,
attraction and intimacy.
This section explores common masculine and feminine patterns that create misunderstanding, disconnection and polarity challenges inside relationships.
Helping you navigate each other with greater awareness, attraction and understanding.
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT?
- Not communication advice.
- Not shadow work that stops at awareness.
- Not another way to manage symptoms.
Instead:
- A structured method for transforming triggers into connection, magnetism and relational change.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
Inside the programme you'll receive:
✓ 60+ audio lessons
✓ Written transcripts for every lesson
✓ Guided exercises and integration practices
✓ Complete training in the Profound Permission Method®
✓ Shadow-to-Power archetypal work
✓ Communication and repair frameworks
✓ Masculine and feminine conditioning modules
✓ Real-world demonstrations and examples
✓ Lifetime access to all content
✓ Future course updates
WHO IS THIS FOR?
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF…
- You're looking for communication scripts to apply in the moment without doing the deeper work.
- You want surface-level strategies that don't require looking at your own patterns honestly.
- You think your partner needs to change more than you do.
- You want a quick fix and are not prepared to put new learnings and methods into practice.
- You're not ready to take responsibility for your part in what's been created.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF…
- You've done a lot of work on yourelf and still feel like something important is missing.
- You have genuine self awareness and your relationship is still stuck.
- You have tried to understand the patterns, and understanding hasn't been enough.
- You want the triggers to stop running things,
not just be better managed. - You are willing to consider the part you are playing in creating your current relationship reality.
- You're ready to build a relationship that's actually yours, on your terms, from the inside out.
CHOOSE YOUR PATH
Three ways to move through this work.
The course content is identical across all tiers,
what changes is the level of support around you as you do it.
TIER 1
Self-Study Programme
£597
Full access to the complete Profound Permission® programme
(on Thinkific platform).
All modules, all lessons, lifetime access to the content.
For those who prefer to work independently
and move through the material at their own pace.
TIER 2
Self-Study Programme
Plus Group Calls
£997
All learning resources in the self-study programme,
plus 12 weeks of live group coaching calls to support you
through the work in real time.
Calls run every Wednesday at 3pm UK time (subject to change).
Receive live guidance and support as you apply the work
to your own relationship and real-life situations.
TIER 3
Self-Study Programme & Group Calls
Plus Private Mentorship
£1,997
The most supported way to move through this work.
Everything in Tier 2, plus 3 x 90-minute private sessions with Michele via Zoom.
Used at your own pace across the course duration, for the moments that need
dedicated, individual attention, or where you want to go deeper than a group container allows.
Tier 1
£
597
Tier 2
£
997
Tier 3
£
1997
NOT SURE WHICH TIER?
If you work well independently and are comfortable sitting with material on your own — Tier 1.
Best for those who want support as the triggers, insights and shifts begin showing up in real life.
Get feedback from Michele on live group calls — Tier 2.
If you want dedicated 1 on 1 time with Michele alongside the group container — Tier 3.
All three tiers move through the same course.
The difference is how held you are while you do it.
For Tier 2 and Tier 3 students
Calls run live every Wednesday at 3pm UK.
If you can't attend live, the recording will be available.
You have 12 weeks of call access from your enrolment date.
For Tier 3 students
Private sessions are booked directly with Michele
via a booking link sent on enrolment.
Sessions are 90 minutes on Zoom and can be used
at any point across the course duration.
Michele Willmott
Relationship Coach, Psychotherapist & Creator of the Profound Permission Method®
For over a decade, I have worked with intelligent, self-aware men and women who deeply desire a loving, connected relationship yet still find themselves caught in painful relational patterns they cannot fully explain.
My work goes beyond surface-level relationship tips and communication tools to address the hidden emotional and energetic dynamics that silently shape connection, conflict, distance, and repair.
It helps people dismantle their triggers and the fears that are beneath them so that they can create a greater degree of freedom, connection and intimacy.
Ready to discover what has been waiting underneath the trigger all along?
Choose your path and start rebuilding your love life.
Tier 1
£
597
Tier 2
£
997
Tier 3
£
1997
What if your feelings weren't the problem?
What if they had been holding the possibility all along?
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